You've got it all together.

You may look at someone and go. "Wow look at them they have all of their shit together".

This response may then be followed by not checking in, focusing on your own stuff or moving on. 

That person still may have shit they are working through. They may still be experiencing challenges you can assist with. They may even just need to know you care. 

No matter how great things have been cultivated the crop still needs to be harvested.