You've got to see it.

If our local governments showed us exactly the spot our household rubbish went to on a day by day basis our daily waste would be drastically reduced. 

If someone showed you how your actions or inaction impacted others at the end of each day you would drastically adjust how you act or don't act towards others the following day. 

Don't wait for someone else to show you.

Go there in your mind.

See what you need to see.

Feel what you must feel to change your actions or inaction in real time.