Space

You don't need to have all the answers. You don't need to be the smartest guy in the room. 

Create a space for people to show up generously towards themselves. Create a space that allows for more possibilities to emerge. Create a space that helps someone to redefine their direction. Create a space where change can happen. Create a space that paths the way for someone to give back to others. 

Drop the concept of "doing" and just "be".

Stop trying to meddle, fix or revoluntise someone's thinking. They need to do this for themselves. Gift others subtle, gentle and tentative ways of exploring their experiences, opening up to new possibilities and potentially support them in the hard work of confronting their reality.