When you are sitting in front of someone you instantly connect with. Tell them. Acknowledge there is something special about what you are feeling, seeing, thinking and hearing. 

This acknowledgment opens up a whole new dialouge of REAL sharing. You never know this might open up a space for even BIGGER change. 

The opposite is also true. Not connecting? Not feeling like you are on the same page? Ask. Let them know you feel a sense of disconnection. Ask them how they feel? Let them tell you their truth. Co create a way to connect or walk away to find another connection that has the capacity to change things.